AFAIK, KiCad doesn’t do negative copper features (OrCAD seems to call these “voids”). You can add rule zones that exclude pads and tracks, but that’s just going to flag a DRC error rather than remove the copper. Reducing the size of the pad sounds like your best bet. I think it puts you in the right frame of mind for working with KiCad - you explicitly specify where you want copper and the DRC tells you whether you broke any rules. You can ignore the violations, but you can’t “correct” them without fixing the source of the issue.